IT DOESN'T MATTER WHO YOU ARE; YOU ARE IMPORTANT

Sometimes we choose wrong when trying to choose right...

The ironical mirror...

So, I have noticed that many people 'worship' entrepreneurs. But then, there are innovators, the managers, the general employees ... but people relish the entrepreneur!!

It is believed that many business owners are entrepreneurs. We see entrepreneurs as the people behind the money... We love entrepreneurs because they are the super men in the economy!! They make all the money, the rest work for them ... thats it, or is it?

The reality is...
that, we need entrepreneurs amongst us.

In political economics , entrepreneurship is the process of identifying and starting a new business venture, sourcing and organizing the required resources, while taking both the risks and rewards associated with the venture (wikipedia) (think Sir Richard Branson)

Innovators, are the brain boxes that come up with solutions that change man kind for a very long time (think Steve Jobs)

An innovator in a general sense, is a person or an organization who is one of the first to introduce into reality something better than before. That opens up a new area for others and achieves an innovation . (wikipedia)

Then there is management, where we all want to start, then be innovators, then ... ENTREPRENEURS!!! We forget that we all have different capabilities and capacities.

Many entrepreneurs I meet have absolutely no capacity to make the money last a week!! Thus, they need 'working class' consultants and managers to help them achieve long term goals.

Many innovators i know are lazy, or awkward or misfits, and will NEED someone to believe in them (or a good business plan for financing) before their innovations take life!!!

Many managers I know are too busy being managers, they forget that these "lower beings" are the engine of the organization, and if they all left, there would be no business to manage!!

And finally, the workers or "lower beings" surviving .. are the engines of the business. We need someone to create contact with the customer, someone to ensure the merchandise is available and in good shape, someone to keep our customers safe and secure, someone to deal with the paper work, someone to fix the computers and printers ... the list is endless!!

Until the day we see the true meaning of the positions God has put us in, we will never appreciate (and we all know, ungrateful hearts are the ones mark timing year in, year out). I am happy and grateful for where I am today. I made mistakes in the past that had taken me a few steps back, but I am here, now. Moving forward, the past offers lessons, nothing more. The future holds opportunities. But the present, is where IT ALL STARTS!!!

Don't feel bad you don't have the perks of the MD, maybe one day you will be MD, but all that depends on how you handle your job TODAY!! The MD also worked their way there, they didn't wake up at age 40 and discovered .."WOW!! AM MD!!)

Live life, be happy and most of all, be grateful for where you are today!!

This is Serenity!!
Life is always beautiful...

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* The journey towards self appreciation
* Power of Purpose
* Gratitude
* Love and faith
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What is a LACE FRONT wig?

These wigs resemble weaves, in that, it gives you a hair-line, getting rid of the
'wiggy' effect.
The lace is preferred by those who:
-are experiencing total hair loss eg, due to medical conditions or side-effects
from medication
-those who like weaves but have extremely sensitive scalps
-those experiencing hair loss around their edges
-those whose hair is fine/brittle and cannot withstand extensions/weaves
-those from hospital and cannot have their hair done immediately
The lace front allows you to own the style without the 'wiggy' look, as well as
allowing the scalp to breathe/rest in case of scalp irritation

Stay beautiful!!
This is Serenity!!

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Raw shea butter: benefits

As discussed in the last post on shea butter, i think it will be great to go into one of its benefits; GREAT SKIN CARE PRODUCT
So here goes,,,

thecultureist.com

SOFTER SKIN: Shea butter is hard to use on its own but you can mix with your favourite lotions and oils/pomades and it will work great. After just a month, i have noticed silkier skin (even on my palms, and i don't scrub).
Also, the complexion is more defined and uniform, as compared to before. I do not use it on my face though, as it is quite creamy and rich and I have oily face. A good plan would to mix a small portion with your night cream then cleanse in the morning if you really have to use on the face.
When used straight, it makes excellent lip balm ( although i mix mine with some Vaseline and honey (to taste - just a drop). It also soften rough heels, and l mean grater rough feet. And also rough knees and elbows.

It also works well on scars, and may eliminate them  For more traumatic scars, it helps make the skin softer hence helping the scar blend in with the surrounding skin  

It works also well for cuts and abrassions and some minor burns, preventing blistering and scarring. 

Many ladies use it for stretch marks. It will definatelly reduce their appearance and when used during pregnancy, it may help prevent them completely . Just massage the butter with a good carrier oil like olive oil and massage on the belly and thighs (and breasts too..they also get their own uplifts during pregnancy)

On the hair,,,

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It acts as a good sealant after conditioning/treatment and makes hair really smooth. You can mix with your favourite oils to make it easier to use.
It is also soothing to the scalp, sort of relaxes and cools it when it feels like scales. With all the vitamin E am sure it does a lot to promote. a healthy scalp.
There are many benefits to using raw shea butter so do not hesitate to grab some. If you would like, just check out this link for some awesome shea products

Take care!!

Live life, live well, stay beautiful!!
This is Serenity!!!

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CINNAMON PEANUT BUTTER CREAM LIQUEUR....

CINNAMON PEANUT BUTTER CREAM LIQUEUR....
So, i have a thing for cream liqueur and cocktails. So here goes...
ingredients:
2 tots liqueur (vodka, rum, whisky, tequilla)
1 cup (250ml) milk, or you can use milk powder 2 table spoons
1 cup (250ml ) water (warm)
1tablespoon peanut butter (creamy, not crunchy)
1 tea spoon vanilla essense
1 tea spoon cinnamon powder
1tea spoon sugar/honey/stevia/aspa sweet
results: about 4 or 5 servings
directions;
put all ingredients in a blender and blend. You can add ice cubes to chill it, or use frozen milk

alternatives:
-you can add cocoa instead of peanut butter for a choco flavour, but dont use brandy with cocoa because it will be bitter
-you can use coconut milk instead of dairy milk or milk powder
-for a strawberry taste, you can add strawberry essence or strawberry syrup. or you can add both chocolate and strawberry.
-serve chilled, or if during the Nairobi winter, you can serve it warm and streamy!!!
Enjoy!!!

 

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Don't worry whether its right or not.... It's your life

You have been invited for a very important event (like, your best friend's wedding) and you are shopping around town looking for a perfect and appropriate outfit.
So, you walk into a shop selling shoes, and you immediately know the pair you like. But then, they don't have your size, or the colour you wanted. But the shop is full of shoes, all types, all sizes, most affordable brands and fashion season doesn't dictate their stock. The assistants are God-sent since they help you pick out a pair that looks amazing, complements your dress/suit and you have a great time at the event and everyone is complementing you for looking so glam that day (never mind you never wore the shoes you thought were right)...
Point of the story....
In life, we have to make choices. Some of them, we are not too sure but make them anyway. But some choices, we are dead set that they are RIGHT, and no soul or spirit can convince you to reconsider your decision.
But then God has a way of making sure we don't turn our lives into a complete mess (if you have the humility to listen even ONCE) you will be 'forced' by the angels that live among us to go along with an alternate option, which turns out to be the best thigh that may ever happen to you!!
In a society where idolization and glorification is a ritual, this can be hard, and may even seem crazy, disastrous or that you need psychiatric help. All phenomenal ideas are worshiped, but what happens to the little compromises and compassion that we all ultimately need? They are a sign of weakness!!
Not for me though. Out of experience, there is more to life than that. When you are at the point where you question your very existence, then you will learn to appreciate the other models and fabrics in society. You recognize the golden opportunities you threw away because your 'role model' did it differently, and when you are starting over, you would gladly accept a small portion of that which you let go of.
No size fits all, no style appeals to everyone. But if that path has a semblance of a future you would want, then follow it. Listen to your elders, and have an open mind.
As a rule, i look up to people who are at peace with their lives, no matter the circumstances they are dealing with. And that (with God's blessings) forms a great deal of how I make my decisions. I dont know about you, but what ever you decide, it has to make sense to YOU before it makes sense to anyone else.
So, enjoy life. You were a lone zygote, and you will be a lone set of bones eventually. What happens in between better be worth it.

Live life, live well, have fun!!
This is Serenity!!

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About Fibromyalgia: What on earth is FIBROMYALGIA?

Fibromyalgia (pronounced fy-bro-my-AL-ja) is a common and complex chronic pain disorder that affects people physically, mentally and socially.
Fibromyalgia is a syndrome rather than a disease. Unlike a disease, which is a medical condition with a specific cause or causes and recognizable signs and symptoms, a syndrome is a collection of signs, symptoms, and medical problems that tend to occur together but are not related to a specific identifiable cause.

Fibromyalgia, which has also been referred to as fibromyalgia syndrome, fibromyositis and fibrositis , is characterized by chronic widespread pain, multiple tender points, abnormal pain processing, sleep disturbances, fatigue and often psychological distress. For those with severe symptoms, fibromyalgia can be extremely debilitating and interfere with basic daily activities.

Chronic widespread body pain is the primary symptom of fibromyalgia. Most people with fibromyalgia also experience moderate to extreme fatigue, sleep disturbances, sensitivity to touch, light, and sound, and cognitive difficulties. Many individuals also experience a number of other symptoms and overlapping conditions, such as irritable bowel syndrome, lupus and arthritis.

Pain....

The pain of fibromyalgia is profound, chronic and widespread. It can migrate to all parts of the body and vary in intensity. FM pain has been described as stabbing and shooting pain and deep muscular aching, throbbing, and twitching. Neurological complaints such as numbness, tingling, and burning
are often present and add to the discomfort of the patient. The severity of the pain and stiffness is often worse in the morning. Aggravating factors that affect pain include cold/humid weather, non-restorative sleep, physical and mental fatigue, excessive physical activity, physical inactivity, anxiety and stress.

Fatigue...
many people complain of fatigue; however, the fatigue of FM is much more than being tired after a particularly busy day or after a sleepless night. The fatigue of FM is an all-encompassing exhaustion that can interfere with occupational, personal, social or educational activities. Symptoms include
profound exhaustion and poor stamina

Sleep problems... 
Many fibromyalgia patients have an associated sleep disorder that prevents them from getting deep, restful, restorative sleep. Medical researchers have documented specific and distinctive abnormalities in the Stage 4 deep sleep of FM patients. During sleep, individuals with FM are constantly interrupted by bursts of awake-like brain activity, limiting the amount of time they spend in deep sleep.

Other symptoms/overlapping conditions...
Additional symptoms may include: irritable bowel and bladder, headaches and migraines, restless legs syndrome (periodic limb movement disorder), impaired memory and concentration, skin sensitivities and rashes, dry eyes and mouth, anxiety, depression, ringing in the ears, dizziness, vision
problems, Raynaud's Syndrome, neurological symptoms, and impaired coordination.

Causes...
Common risk factors include:
(**risk factors are not immediate causes but facilitators)

• Sleep disturbance
• physical injury
• Early childhood trauma
• Repetitive strain injury
• gluten intolerance
• other diseases and disorders

The underlying cause or causes of FM still remain a mystery, Most researchers agree that FM is a disorder of central processing with neuroendocrine/neurotransmitter dysregulation. The FM patient experiences pain amplification due to abnormal sensory processing in the central nervous system.
From imbalance of substances in the spinal cord, low blood flow to the brain, abnormalities in some amino acids function to low levels of neurotransmitters.. FM is confusing and is often treated as per severity of the symptoms.
Recent studies show that genetic factors may also predispose individuals to a genetic susceptibility to FM.
For some, the onset of FM is slow; however, in a large percentage of patients the onset is triggered by an illness or injury that causes trauma to the body . These events may act to incite an undetected
physiological problem already present.

Relief...
This is achieved in two combined approaches; medicine and physical exercise therapies.
The medicine part will involve prescribed SSRIs (Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors) and sometimes something to aid sleep. These will usually stabilize the patient by axing the anxiety, aiding sleep which enables body repair and improve immunity.
The exercises will help the patient's muscles not atrophy (which is a result of long term disuse). FM can knock its victims into a state of physical dormancy. Also, exercise will release extra feel good hormones which improve the patient's quality of life and promote relief.
You can boost your quality of life by incorporating healthy diets. You can also add a regimen of multivitamins, and more holistic lifestyle tips.

**All in all, never pressure the patient into recovery. While encouragement is good, keep it reasonable. Hardly does the patient understand what is going on, and neither does the doctor (they treat it symptomatically and every patient is unique). The stress may make it worse. Take your time.

Live life, live well, enjoy life.

This is Serenity!!

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Mental illness: what is it?

Mental illness refers to a wide range of mental health conditions — disorders
that affect your mood, thinking and behavior. Examples of mental illness
include depression, anxiety disorders, schizophrenia, eating disorders and
addictive behaviors.
Many people have mental health concerns from time to time. But a mental
health concern becomes a mental illness when ongoing signs and symptoms
cause frequent stress and affect your ability to function. A mental illness can
make you miserable and can cause problems in your daily life, such as at
work or in relationships. In most cases, mental illness symptoms can be
managed with a combination of medications and counseling (psychotherapy).
(quoted from mayoclinic.org )
So in essence, there is no need to stigmatize people sufferning from mental illness. It is not a crime or a mistake. Just like physical ailments, anyone can suffer mental illness and still overcome it and achieve their dreams and goals. Do not feel bad about suffering from mental ailments, and do NOT lose hope in your life and capabilities. If amputees can become Olympic champions, mental illness sufferers can become geniuses in whatever fields they are good at.

Live life, live well.
This is Serenity!!

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