Wednesday 7 May 2014

Don't worry whether its right or not.... It's your life

You have been invited for a very important event (like, your best friend's wedding) and you are shopping around town looking for a perfect and appropriate outfit.
So, you walk into a shop selling shoes, and you immediately know the pair you like. But then, they don't have your size, or the colour you wanted. But the shop is full of shoes, all types, all sizes, most affordable brands and fashion season doesn't dictate their stock. The assistants are God-sent since they help you pick out a pair that looks amazing, complements your dress/suit and you have a great time at the event and everyone is complementing you for looking so glam that day (never mind you never wore the shoes you thought were right)...
Point of the story....
In life, we have to make choices. Some of them, we are not too sure but make them anyway. But some choices, we are dead set that they are RIGHT, and no soul or spirit can convince you to reconsider your decision.
But then God has a way of making sure we don't turn our lives into a complete mess (if you have the humility to listen even ONCE) you will be 'forced' by the angels that live among us to go along with an alternate option, which turns out to be the best thigh that may ever happen to you!!
In a society where idolization and glorification is a ritual, this can be hard, and may even seem crazy, disastrous or that you need psychiatric help. All phenomenal ideas are worshiped, but what happens to the little compromises and compassion that we all ultimately need? They are a sign of weakness!!
Not for me though. Out of experience, there is more to life than that. When you are at the point where you question your very existence, then you will learn to appreciate the other models and fabrics in society. You recognize the golden opportunities you threw away because your 'role model' did it differently, and when you are starting over, you would gladly accept a small portion of that which you let go of.
No size fits all, no style appeals to everyone. But if that path has a semblance of a future you would want, then follow it. Listen to your elders, and have an open mind.
As a rule, i look up to people who are at peace with their lives, no matter the circumstances they are dealing with. And that (with God's blessings) forms a great deal of how I make my decisions. I dont know about you, but what ever you decide, it has to make sense to YOU before it makes sense to anyone else.
So, enjoy life. You were a lone zygote, and you will be a lone set of bones eventually. What happens in between better be worth it.
Live life, live well, have fun!!
This is Serenity!!
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