Sexual violence: A disgrace to society claiming to be civilized!!

※※Refuse to play a role in someone else’s pain
Don’t let your ‘fun’ mean a lot of pain to someone else.
Remember there is no joy in hurting someone who did nothing wrong to you - NAMUNYAK NKURRUNAH※※

                            

Sexual violence: A disgrace to society claiming to be civilized!!

Rape is something that is traumatizing to anyone; man, woman, boy, girl, elderly or child.
The worst part is that sexual violence and rape are perpetrated, not automatic or as a response to stimuli!!

A rapist or sexual offender usually comes to a pre-meditated decision to defile; just as a first degree murderer, it never just happens!!
They plan, and actually look forward to committing the act; whether in five minutes or five years; they WANT to do it even though they KNOW its wrong!!

No person deserves to be touched or violated, regardless of whether they are naked or not.
When we see a mad person stripping in public, the first reaction is to restrain the person THEN cover them up.

So, what's with the excuse that she looked so sexy in that dress, or that he was so handsome he could make cute babies??

And our little boys; their innocence and naivety is beautiful to look at, but not to destroy!! Our little girls; she will indeed grow to be a gorgeous siren but that is no reason to traumatize her just because!!!

Sexual violence is despicable, and a putrefaction of society covered in swagger and glitz!!!
Its disgusting!!!

No man deserves to have Valium and Cialis in his drink just because he won't sleep with you!!
No woman has to pay for your filthy thoughts against women!!
That is plain rotten.

Do you know the worst part?

Its that the PERPETRATOR is usually protected to save face, for the victims' and perpetrators' families!
Its even worse when both come from the same circle of family or close family friends!! And everyone will ALWAYS know the truth, but choose to save face!!!

The victim will not know whether to report because he or she does not want to be sidelined; violation is trauma enough!!!
So they live with it until something happens;
-a disease is diagnosed,
-a pregnancy occurs
-or when the mental state of the victim is so compromised it takes professional help to help them cope..
and its normally too late!!

Like I said, we live in a swaggerific and glamorous society; apparently, these things happen only to the poor and defenseless; not the rich, educated, polished members of society - the same class with the most deviance of morals, suicide and depression!!!

Sexual violence of any form should not be tolerated at all!!

BUT GOD DOES NOT ASLEEP...

For the affected though; God never sleeps. He will lift you beyond your circumstances, and He will prepare a feast in front of your enemies!!
You will need to pour out your pain to Him though; healing starts from the spirit, then pours out to other areas of our lives, then to those around us.

※※For He has good plans for us, no matter our circumstances; He will establish us and even those who have no clue of what happened will surely acknowledge that God is indeed for you.※※

※※never carry the ulcer in your heart.. there are many humans who can help you cope and move forward stronger, and you will lift others in the process.

Not everyone is an animal...

There are many who care; or you can reach out to me for connection to some of them ※※

Call/text/whatsapp +254725733412 for more queries and quotations regarding a support group, therapist, spiritual leader or counsellor.
Or email me at mburu.njeri88@gmail.com .

This is Serenity!!

Because Life is Beautiful...

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Firework (song by Katy Perry)

Fireworks by Katy Perry

※ Maybe the reason why All the doors are closed is So you could open one That leads you to the perfect road※

Do you ever feel Like a plastic bag
Drifting through the wind Wanting to start again
Do you ever feel Feel so paper-thin
Like a house of cards One blow from caving in
Do you ever feel Already buried deep
Six feet under, Screams but no one seems to hear a thing

Do you know that there's Still a chance for you
'Cause there's a spark in you

You just gotta Ignite the light
And let it shine, Just own the night Like the Fourth of July

'Cause baby, you're a firework
Come on show them what you're worth
Make them go, "Oh, oh, oh"
As you shoot across the sky
Baby, you're a firework
Come on let your colors burst
Make them go, "Oh, oh, oh"
You're gonna leave them all in awe

You don't have to feel Like a waste of space
You're original Cannot be replaced
If you only knew What the future holds
After a hurricane Comes a rainbow

Maybe the reason why All the doors are closed
So you could open one That leads you to the perfect road
Like a lightning bolt Your heart will glow

And when it's time you know

You just gotta Ignite the light
And let it shine
Just own the night Like the Fourth of July

'Cause baby, you're a firework
Come on show them what you're worth
Make them go, "Oh, oh, oh"
As you shoot across the sky
Baby, you're a firework
Come on let your colors burst
Make them go, "Oh, oh, oh"
You're gonna leave them all in awe

Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon
It's always been inside of you, you, you
And now it's time to let it through

'Cause baby, you're a firework
Come on show them what you're worth
Make them go, "Oh, oh, oh"
As you shoot across the sky

Baby, you're a firework
Come on let your colors burst
Make them go, "Oh, oh, oh"
You're gonna leave them all in awe

Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon
Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon

This is Serenity!!

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