Life beyond pain..

Its never easy.
But its ok.

* If the path before you is clear, you’re probably on someone else’s path.*

The power of your words..  
Learn to bless your future.
You can predict your future by the words you utter today. Learn to name your future with positive and flourishing words; words that spur growth and trigger forward movement.
Despite the current circumstances, keep the faith.

**There is victory in the end if you come to agreement with it.**

In the natural it will seem impossible; but we are told that when we badly want something the universe conspires for it to come to pass.

So how does the universe know what to conspire for?
By the words you speak.
By the faith you profess.
By the thoughts in your head.
If you aspire for light even in dark times, light will come.

Faith... Trust... Belief...
All in the words you utter.

*Be careful for what you wish for; you may just get it!!*

Even in our moments of failure we get second chances.
If you are alive despite all you have gone through then be assured that you have not fulfilled your divine destiny and God will not allow you to go yet. 

The number of your days He will fulfill. Even if you are on the wrong course, He will come in and drag you back to the right track, kicking and screaming, open doors no man can shut, shut doors no man can open and give you abundant grace to fulfill your life.

This whole process will be fulfilling if you just get in agreement with God. He has a bright future for you.

Now speak it; bring your faith to life.
And act like a victor and not a victim.

Slowly but surely, you will see things turn around.

Despite the grace promised by God, remember He does not interfere with our free will.

So if you choose to be sour on your life...so shall your future be sour.
It is literally a choice we make.
To be hopeful or to be hopeless.
To be convicted and forgiven, or to be condemed for life.

Your words express what is in your heart...your faith.
Practice daily to believe in good even when in the natural it looks bad.

Sometimes we feel like we have really blown it and cannot get another chance. Well, we cannot do anything about the past but surely we have the power to do something about the future.

We are promised that our power is defined by His grace..
Get in agreement with God and harness your power.!!

***This is Serenity***

※  Butterfly thoughts
※  Understand the fire
※  Self appreciation; The journey towards self reconstruction
※  Escape (Megan Nicole)
※  You are loved
※   Recovery of the body: Mind and Spirit

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Escape (Megan Nicole)

"Escape" by MEGAN NICOLE

Run run run away
Meet me in our hiding place
Find me where we'll make our escape

Come come come away
We don't need them anyway
Find me where we'll make our escape

Slow it down
Cause I can't breathe
So much noise
That I can't see

I'm forgetting
Who I am
Why can't they see
That I'm not perfect

Cause I'll never be
What they want me to be
I have to believe
That I'm good enough

I need a release
Somewhere I can be free
And find the me
I used to know

So I'm going back
To the place it began
Under the tree
At the top of the hill

We'd share all our dreams
Or not say a word
That's where I know
Just who I am

Lay with me
Just be still
Feel it all
Disappear
Disappear

Now I'm letting go
And won't put on a show
I finally believe
That I'm good enough

You made me strong
To know all along
I am the me
I used to know

So I'm going back
To the place it began
Under the tree
At the top of the hill

We'd share all our dreams
Or not say a word
That's where I know
Just who I am

So I'm going back
To the place it began
Under the tree
At the top of the hill

We'd share all our dreams
Or not say a word
That's where I know
Just who I am

Run run run away
Meet me in our hiding place
Find me where we'll make our escape

Come come come away
We don't need them anyway
Find me where we'll make our escape

So I'm going back
To the place it began
Under the tree
At the top of the hill

We'd share all our dreams
Or not say a word
That's where I know
Just who I am

So I'm going back
To the place it began
Under the tree
At the top of the hill

We'd share all our dreams
Or not say a word
That's where I know
Just who I am

Run run run away
Meet me in our hiding place
Find me where we'll make our escape

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Fibromyalgia: Feeling the Funk

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When the funk hits..
And you feel like nothing is worth it..
Remember..its just a funk..
The beat will stop at some point..
And life will go back to normal..

Through out my journey with fibromyalgia, I have learned to deal with the "hills and valleys". There are times I could go for months leading a very normal pain-free life then the funk hits...and you feel like you are now in a valley. The funk can be triggered by an illness flare or extreme mental stress. 

Feeling the funk..
It starts with a serious fatigue episode.
Sometimes it starts with serious migraines or deep muscle pain.
Then the brain fog and memory burden (when its an uphill task to remember simple things).
Then the episodes of pain.. On and off and all over.
It can last anything from a week to a month straight on. 

Sometimes it's confusing, with bouts of flu-like symptoms, fevers, chills, high white blood cell count as if i have an infection... 

Gastric issues, nausea, lack of appetite... Just being weird and sickly at the same time yet there is nothing visibly wrong.

The funk is usually unpredictable but it can be anticipated. After a highly stressful episode like an illness or an inter-relational conflict, you can anticipate some funk. The sooner you start dealing with it, the sooner it will lift. Do not rush the process though. Let it run its course as you employ the coping mechanisms listed below.

Coping in the funk.. 

°Eat well..
Most times during a fibro funk, I experience severe appetite loss.
This can cause you to be extremely fatigued and experience weakness.
This makes everything worse.. The pain and brain fog seem to tripple when my appetite is down.
I have a food journal and set reminders on my phone to alert me every couple of hours to have a meal/snack. (supplements come in handy... A meal replacement shake helps keep the nutrition balanced).

°Nutritional supplements
I have learned to stay on top of my nutritional supplements game especially during a flare "funk".
~B vitamins help in stabilizing the neuro pathways and this has a co-relation with sensitivity to pain.
- Magnesium is very handy in helping cope with sensitivity to pain.
- Zinc helps boost immunity so you are less susceptible to opportunistic infections, especially if eating is a problem.
- Protein shakes/mass gain/meal replacement shakes help in maintaining your nutritional levels even if for some reason you cannot eat. A tasty milkshake or smoothie or even ice popsicle will help provide nutritional comfort food when you need it.

°Take time off and relax..
Despite the tight schedules we all have, take some time off and relax.
A fibro flare "funk" can cause you to feel more burdened in life, especially if you have a lot going on.
- Relax even if for just 15 minutes a day. Listen to uplifting material and avoid depressive music or literature. Fill your mind with positivity and light.

-. Relaxation techniques help with coping with the funk mentally.
- If you exercise you can reduce the intensity or give it a break. This reduces the physical burden your body has to carry.
-Take advantage of your free time and relax. Switch off your phone and just zone off. 

°Manage the pain..
- You can see your GP for short term pain therapies that you can use to manage the pain.
- If possible get a deep tissue massage to help relax the muscles.
- Whenever you can, get a good sleep.
Its normal to experience insomnia during a funk. Before bed, a good self massage or stretch can help induce sleep. Avoid sleeping pills - unless you haven't slept for 2 days or more. 

°You are not depressed..
A fibro funk can leave someone feeling emotionally tired or feeling the weight of the world.
Remember, you are not depressed. This is a physical issue that will go away with proper management.
Your physician may prescribe medicine to help combat depression but remember..fibromyalgia and the ailments that affect your neuro-pathways are closely related.
You are not dealing with depression.
You are dealing with a flare up. It will definately cause more stress. Remember the relaxation techniques and rest as much as possible.

°You are not lazy..

Also, you are not lazy. A week off from normal routine should not make you feel bad or guilty about not being your best..you are already doing the best you can.

Most of all, stick to routine as much as possible. Go to work even if its half day. Go to class. Perform your chores even if you are much slower than usual. 

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°You need to keep on moving..

A sedentary lifestyle makes everything.worse. Keep moving. You are much closer to recovery when you stick to your plan..even if you took a day off. Make up for it the next day.
The moment you toss your plans out of the window you will have a harder time picking up the pieces once the funk lifts.You will end up with a form of atrophy.. And that, will make your days worse..

(Atrophy; (of body tissue or an organ) waste away, typically due to the degeneration of cells, or become vestigial during evolution. Or, the gradual decline in effectiveness or vigor due to underuse or neglect)

More reads:

※  Chronic fatigue syndrome
※  INFLAMMATION: A SMALL PEEK AT WHAT MAKES US FEEL PAIN
※  About Fibromyalgia: What on earth is FIBROMYALGIA?
※  Mental illness: what is it?
※  Depression: Is it really genetic?
※   Sleep deprivation

Chronic fatigue syndrome

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 Feeling tired all the time.
You wake up and feel tired.
You go to bed still tired. Even in your dreams you are tired.
And it does not go away...even after sleeping an entire weekend. 

 Chronic fatigue syndrome

A disease characterized by profound fatigue, sleep abnormalities, pain, and other symptoms that are made worse by exertion.

The fatigue is not due to ongoing exertion, not relieved much by rest, and is not caused by other medical conditions ~ meaning it is not due to pushing your boundaries a couple of times, nor as a result of getting sick for a short while.

Severity can vary: Some persons with CFS lead relatively normal lives; others are totally bed-ridden and unable to care for themselves.

Fibromyalgia occurs in a large percentage of CFS patients between onset and the second year, and some researchers suggest fibromyalgia and CFS are related.

Symptoms (lasting 6 months or longer)

￠The main symptom is fatigue for over six months which is unrelated to exertion, is not substantially relieved by rest, and is not a result of other medical conditions.
The fatigue often worsens with activity, but doesn't improve with rest.

￠Widespread muscle pain (myalgia) and joint pain (arthralgia).

￠Chronic and severe mental and physical exhaustion.

￠Headaches of a type not previously experienced - unusually painful or does not respond to usual pain medication.

Additional symptoms
Additional symptoms may be reported, including:
*muscle weakness
*increased sensitivity to light sounds and smells
*problems standing up
*digestive disturbances
depression
*painful and often slightly swollen lymph nodes

Why visit your doctor
It is recommended that persons with symptoms resembling those of CFS consult a physician to rule out several treatable illnesses:

*Lyme disease
*sleep disorder
*major depressive disorder
*alcohol/substance abuse
*diabetes
*hypothyroidism
*mononucleosis (mono)
*lupus
*multiple sclerosis (MS)
*chronic hepatitis and various malignancies.
*Medications that can also cause side effects that mimic symptoms of Chronic fatigue syndrome.

Management:

** Many people do not fully recover from CFS even with treatment.**

￠ Cognitive behavioral therapy: which tries to help patients understand their individual symptoms and beliefs and develop strategies to improve day-to-day functioning and is thought to help patients by eliminating unhelpful illness beliefs which may perpetuate the illness.

￠Exercise: Graded exercise therapy
** exercise therapy is not a cure for CFS

Randomized trials found that patients who received exercise therapy were less fatigued after 12 weeks than the control participants, and the authors cautiously conclude that GET shows promise as a treatment.

￠Pacing
Pacing is an energy management strategy (based on the observation that symptoms of the illness tend to increase following minimal exertion).
The principle behind pacing is to avoid over-exertion and an exacerbation (to make worse) of symptoms.
It is not aimed at treating the illness as a whole.
Those whose illness appears stable may gradually increase activity and exercise levels but according to the principle of pacing, must rest if it becomes clear that they have exceeded their limits.

￠Other
Medications thought to have promise in alleviating symptoms include antidepressant and immunomodulatory agents.
However many CFS patients are sensitive to medications, particularly sedatives, and some patients report chemical and food sensitivities.
Multivitamin and multimineral supplements are thought to help relieve various symptoms associated with chronic fatigue syndrome.

Social issues:

A study found that CFS patients report a heavy psychosocial burden and state that they struggle for recognition of their needs.
Individuals with CFS may receive a poorer quality of social support than in those with other illnesses.

*Some in the medical community do not recognize CFS as a real condition, nor is there agreement on its prevalence.

More reads:  
※  Sleep deprivation
※  About Fibromyalgia
※  INFLAMMATION: A SMALL PEEK AT WHAT MAKES US FEEL PAIN
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※  Mental illness: what is it?
※  Athletic Steroids: a.k.a Anabolic Androgenic Steroids

Sources:
en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chronic_fatigue_syndrome

Rather be - song by Clean Bandit tf Jess Glynne

Clean Bandit "Rather Be" lyrics

※ When I am with you, there's no place I rather be ※ 

We're a thousand miles from comfort, we have traveled land and sea
But as long as you are with me, there's no place I rather be
I would wait forever, exulted in the scene
As long as I am with you, my heart continues to beat

With every step we take, Kyoto to The Bay
Strolling so casually
We're different and the same, gave you another name
Switch up the batteries

If you gave me a chance I would take it
It's a shot in the dark but I'll make it
Know with all of your heart, you can't shame me
When I am with you, there's no place I rather be
N-n-n-no, no, no, no place I rather be

We staked out on a mission to find our inner peace
Make it everlasting so nothing's incomplete
It's easy being with you, sacred simplicity
As long as we're together, there's no place I rather be

With every step we take, Kyoto to The Bay
Strolling so casually
We're different and the same, gave you another name
Switch up the batteries

If you gave me a chance I would take it
It's a shot in the dark but I'll make it
Know with all of your heart, you can't shame me
When I am with you, there's no place I rather be

If you gave me a chance I would take it
It's a shot in the dark but I'll make it
Know with all of your heart, you can't shame me
When I am with you, there's no place I rather be
N-n-n-no, no, no, no place I rather be

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※ ONE STEP AT A TIME
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